Free From Fibromyalgia Pain, and Living Life To The Fullest!

Written by: Sarah Tobias

It has been a year since I started the Paleo diet. I’m amazed by all the wonderful changes that have taken place. The first two weeks were the hardest. I went through some withdrawal symptoms. My regular headaches got pretty extreme, and felt like I was coming down with the flu. I had made a commitment to give it 30 days and I stuck with it, saying that I could give it all up if I didn’t start to feel better.

I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia about 5 years ago after trying to figure out what was wrong with me for about five years. I remember the first pain so clearly. My thighs would feel like they were burning. Squatting was no longer possible for more than a few seconds. That can make for some awkward moments when you are doing photography of plants on the ground, or picking things up off the floor. When I took the dogs for a ½ mile or less walk, I would be exhausted. I remember making a promise to my Border Collie puppy that I would never give up taking her out. She got bigger, but the walks didn’t get longer.

I gained weight; 60 pounds at the worst of it. I was just turning 40 and I felt like I was 70. Being a librarian, I did research, and then I tried everything. I had my fillings replaced to get the lead out of my body, and I tried so many types of supplements that did nothing but make companies richer. I was addicted to Advil to help me get through a day, and relieve the pain to a point where I was just getting by. I was exhausted all the time, and my body hurt to be touched. My husband would put his hand on my hip, and I would cry out in pain.

I switched to a gluten free diet and I lost 20 pounds. I created a bread recipe with more ingredients than should be in any recipe, but it tasted better than the gluten free stuff on the market. I slacked off my diet and regained 10 pounds. I was stuck in the old loop. I hurt and I didn’t know what to do. I was seeing a chiropractor and she recommended that I look into the Paleo Diet. I downloaded the Paleo Solution and started reading. “Give it 30 days and if it doesn’t work then go back to eating the way you were eating.” I can do it, I thought. Thirty days. I read the whole book, I came up with a personal plan, I let myself off the hook with exercise after reading the chapter on exercise.

After a four day vacation where I swam and tried to eat Paleo in a resort town, I knew I had to really focus and just go for it. My husband pushed me to take before pictures. They remain hidden on my computer. He measured me, and for the first time in a very long time, I was admitting to myself where I really was with my health. It was tough to see what my husband looked at every day. He loved me more than I was able to love myself. Pain had certainly lead to depression and food was my soother.

On February 26, 2012, I started this new way of eating for real. Within weeks, my mother was in the hospital, and we were traveling three hour round trip drives to be with her. I was preparing for a major construction project at my library, and my days were focused on all new and difficult tasks. I don’t know if all of these things helped me stick to these diet and exercise changes, but everything was totally different, so why not the way I treated my body. I rode my bicycle to work when the weather allowed, this gave me a chance to release some of the stress of the day.

By October, construction was complete, my mother’s health was stable and I had lost 39 pounds. The weather began to change and my body and mind needed a break. I have not given up on Paleo. I am committed, but I know that I need to make some more changes to re-energize the weight loss so I can get to my best possible weight. I know spring will arrive in the Midwest and the desire to hibernate will come to an end.

Where I am today: I have lost 39 pounds. Headaches that were almost a constant are rare to non-existent. A chronic cough that seems to have been caused by the food I ate, and exacerbated by exposure to allergens and chemicals, is mostly gone. The pain that racked my body is under control. I walk up the stairs at work (two flights, which always left me breathing hard and feeling like my lungs were on fire) as if it’s a walk down a hallway. When I started swimming, I had to be very careful as the chemicals would make me cough for two or three days. That no longer affects me. When I started swimming, I was able to make about 15 – 20 laps in about an hour, and would be exhausted. I just made a mile (36 laps) in 47 minutes, and continue to swim for the hour. I can then go home and go on with my day.

Sarah at Haleakala
Hiking is easy and fun. The photo of me on the rock at Haleakala is on our way back up the trail. My husband said he thought I was trying to kill him and I suggested we take a break. I was so excited. I was hardly breathing hard and felt like I could have run the rest of the way up the trail. I wanted a picture of the new me on that trail. At the top, my husband jokingly said he dropped the car keys back down where we had stopped to turn back, I said I could go get them. We both knew that I could have. Two years ago on that same trail, I struggled. I struggled going down because of the pain in my thighs and I struggled to breathe coming back up. Now, my family calls me skinny. I feel good about myself. I feel strong and capable and I feel like the person that I was always meant to be. I am so thankful for all of these changes.

When people ask me how I can give up bread and dairy (legumes rarely come up), I say everyday it is a choice. I think back to the pain, the chronic cough, the headaches, and I ask myself if I want to eat a piece of bread or if I want to feel good and be pain free. Feeling good and being pain free is the choice I make. My taste buds have really changed over this year. On the rare occasions that I have some food that I used to just love and thought I couldn’t live without, all I can taste is the flour or high dose of sugar and I don’t want anymore.

Thank you, Robb, for writing your book, and your blog. My life is changed for the better. If I had one more wish come true, it would be that someone would hear or read my story and be inspired to change their life too. Since my husband hasn’t totally taken the plunge, I don’t hold out much hope of that happening. But if you had asked me 1 ½ years ago if I would give up bread, I would have said, “I can’t live without it.” Look at me, I am really living, and I don’t need bread or rice or oatmeal to make that happen.


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  1. says

    Great story. If only more people with chronic illness can find the Paleo Diet we would have a healthier planet. So great you’ve been given a new lease of life from such painful conditions. Diet really is the best medicine.

  2. says

    Congratulations Sarah! Thank you for sharing your inspirational story. I’ve been diagnosed with Fibro and CFS, and although I haven’t experienced a flare-up in quite some time, I’m still living with daily headaches.

    Here’s hoping I finally get rid of my chronic headaches by changing to a Paleo lifestyle!

  3. Linda says

    Sarah, wonderful. I was where you were, diagnosed in fall of 1997 with fibromyalgia, dealing with psoraisis, plantar fascitisis. Tired beyond tired couldn’t get weight off. Started Paleo, Feb 2011. Improvement beyond compare. Holding at a 40 lb loss, feeling better than ever in a LONG time.

    Keep it up, you won’t be sorry.


  4. says

    Congratulations, Sarah. It’s strange that people seem to be more affected by wheat gluten than any other kind. Is this because of the way wheat is bred to increase yield and resist disease?

  5. lori says

    Sarah could u please contact me just reading this as i lay here w a tension headache and would love to have u walk me through this diet….ty inspiring story :)

  6. says

    I am really proud of what you did to yourself. Many people just chose to live a miserable life instead of making and effort and give yourself a chance.

  7. says

    Way to go Sarah :)

    This is really an inspiring story. If only more people would get off the fast food train and turn to a healthy diet like Paleo. I applaud to you and others who stick to it and take back their lives.

  8. Thomas J. Hill says

    Good for you for taking steps to make positive improvements in your life. CFS and FM are crazy illnesses by any measure. My concerns about going Paleo are about whether I will still receive the right nutrients. I don’t want to switch to a diet that makes me have to spend hundreds every month on supplements, like my daughter (vegan) does. That seems hardly a good trade. I have done Paleo, more or less, as an Atkins or Southbeach diet inductions – meat and veggies only for the first month. No dairy, no grains, no fruit till after 2nd week and then only a piece of fruit a couple of times a week. It is brutal, those first few weeks, and you do have horrible withdrawals from sugar and carbs. However, both times I did it, I dropped 10 pounds fast and increased lean muscle mass impressively. Do you have information on the effects of Paleo on the kidneys and liver, as well as the nutrient issues?

    • says

      You will definitely get all the nutrients you need. Once you get your digestive system up and functioning the way it should, you will get more nutrients from the foods you eat. The saturated fats will help you to assimilate all the fat-soluble vitamins that many people lack, especially with a vegan diet. Also, eat more grass-fed red meats and fish. They will help balance out your omega-3 to omega-6 ratio. Chicken is high in omega-6, as well as nuts and seed oils. With the SAD (Standard American Diet) people tend to get way too much omega-6 and not enough omega-3. But in the end if you follow a paleo diet (low in nuts) you will maintain the right balance without supplements.

  9. Joy Bedford says

    Hi thanks for your story it has inspired me to go back to paleo. I too have fibromyalgia, oesophagitis, IBS, candida and a benign brain tumour. I went paleo for about 5 months and all of my symptoms disappeared. I felt great had tons of energy and gave up the meds. Slowly though my old diet returned and so has the symptoms. I have also gained weight again. I feel miserable and the headaches are really getting me down. I can barely cope with day to day life and my children (who all have special needs) are suffering. I will make a plan if action today I owe it to myself and my children.

  10. Elizabeth says

    Anyone notice when they start Paleo or another similar diet got Fibro that the pain and fatigue become unbearably worse for even months? I’ve had a problem sticking with such regimes because of the unrelenting pain and fatigue. Yes, my gut is much better and I do lose weight, but my lethargy and achiness is worse. I know they there is a usual adjustment, detox period. But sometimes it feels too long, as if all of this obsessive, restrictive discipline just isn’t helping my Fibro symptoms enough overall. Thanks in advance to anyone who has some insight.

    • Sarah says

      I know this comment is pretty late, but how many carbs a day are you getting? Everyone’s body is so different. I hope you are feeling better!!

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